Finally some good weather, and Lou and I had the best walk. She was curious about a Bronze Age site only a few minutes drive from hers – one she had only just become aware of.
We parked at the bottom of a steep hill with the intention of walking up. That turned out to be an excellent idea. When we got to the top we found ourselves guests on one of those contentious public footpaths through someone’s land. The landowners were looking at us mildly askance as we cheerfully greeted them. Something made them decide to be kind and give us instructions rather than a bollocking. They had a beautifully illustrated map for their guests and they were concerned to be sure that a certain gate at the top was closed so the sheep didn’t go wandering. They had heard reports that it was open. “Report back on the way down,” we were asked.
Up to the mound. It was delightfully overgrown. Huge tall wildflowers, thistles and old man’s beard. If you could find a place to lie down flat without thistles in your arse you had long grasses and flowers to look up at. It reminded me palpably of the old meadow at the bottom of the garden in my first home in Jersey. Deliberately gone to seed. A superabundance of crickets and grasshoppers, tall unruly grass, old land. We lay and let the sun come and cook us. Finally a summer’s day. By this time of year I’m usually so much darker. A summer’s day and a place in the South Downs that is barely frequented. We saw some distant dog walkers and one mountain biker, and we were there for ages. Peace. Air. Warmth.
The landowner was waiting when we came back. She had been steaming carpets outside. They run a woo-woo boutique camping type thing. I report back on the gate, with videos. She takes us into her confidence.
She used to be a Buddhist nun. For twenty years. She saw this land in a dream. She feels she manifested it and I respect her belief. She could evidently sense that we were the right people to show such things to, so she showed us her Buddhist shrine room. Stone walls and cool, and as cluttered functional and personal as the little altars that both Lou and I happen to have at home. I enjoy these personalised devotional spaces that some people make in their homes. I like when people can be open to the unknown. Not dogmatic, that’s boring. But open. She’s following her own unusual route in life, this curious landowner, and we both feel richer to have met her. “I’m not usually so accommodating, just so you know. If you look at the Google reviews loads of people say I’m rude. Don’t say I’m nice as then they’ll expect it.” I don’t tell her I write my days but I do tell her I won’t put the place we went to online. She’s found a peaceful place. Nobody wants to be constantly managing lost strangers. I’m glad she wanted someone to check the fence was closed though as in a different mood I imagine she could be formidable.